She Says… 8 Months

My tiny man,

You are 8 months old! Well, you’re actually 8 months and 4 days old, Mama’s a little behind on getting this letter written and posted. It’s not a wonder, though, we’ve had a LOT going on in the last month.

If I had to pick one thing that characterized this last month, it would be SICKNESS. You poor little monkey, you spent the last 4 weeks going from one illness to another. First a high fever (so high I ran to pick you up from daycare and demanded that the doctor see you right away), which morphed into pneumonia (which necessitated our first trip to the ER on a night when Daddy was out of town for work — scary!), which was followed up by a rash, which we had to treat with meds that made you sick to your stomach. Boy am I glad that we are through that month! Despite all of those trips to the doctor and different medicines and symptoms, you were your jolly, laid back little self. Even sick, you are one of the happiest little people I’ve ever seen. At the hospital the nurses barely believed that you needed to be there because you were giggling and babbling so sweetly. Then they listened to your chest and were surprised at how sick you really were. We’ve had a few healthy days without any medicine in a row now, and let me just say, I much prefer those days to the sick days! Let’s try to make it to your next well visit (in a month) without any more trips to the doctor in between, mmkay?

The other thing you just couldn’t get enough of this month was STANDING. You are not satisfied unless you’re standing and stomping and practicing walking. Recently you’ve been climbing all over everything. You push right up from laying down and scramble yourself all the way up to a standing position on me, your crib, the couch, wherever you are.  You have always been an active baby, but this newfound ability to move move move is pretty amazing.

We keep saying that you’ll probably go right from sitting to walking, and skip crawling altogether, since all you want to do is stand and walk, but then once in awhile we see a glimmer of crawling. Just last night you were rocking on your knees and testing out lifting one leg and then the other to see if you could propel yourself forward. Since you’re so excited about walking, your “crawling” looked more like a weird Spiderman-esque, downward facing dog move with your butt in the air and you on your tippy toes and hands. You’re such a strong little guy, I don’t think it’ll be long until I’m chasing you down the hall.

You and Schnitzel have continued to develop your adorable friendship. When he comes into the room, your face erupts into a gummy grin and your eyes dance. You’ve started grabbing at his hair and sticking your fingers in his mouth. It’s a good thing he’s so tolerant 🙂 When friends come to play, Schnitzel parks himself right next to you as if he is your protector. Sometimes we don’t even need toys because you just sit and laugh and laugh at Schnitzel for entire playtimes.

Mealtimes continue to get more and more fun too. Just a few days ago something clicked and you began “chewing” (aka gumming… no teeth yet!) things like puffs and pieces of bread. I have been waiting for this milestone so I can introduce you to more table food. I’m so excited to expand your tastebuds beyond the purees you’ve already tried. Though you eat a wide range of foods and spices already, not having to mash everything up into a paste will be nice for both of us.

I baked some homemade bread (Daddy’s favorite) and gave you some of that. You seemed to really dig it, as you kept opening your mouth for more bites. But then I noticed one of your cheeks and one of your ears got fiery red after eating the bread. It wasn’t exactly like your eczema that we’ve dealt with in the past, it was much more like flushed cheeks, but in a very specific pattern. Not normal. I tried again the next day and unfortunately I’ve deduced that you may have a reaction to wheat. I’m sad for you if this turns into a real allergy, but I’m hoping it’s just a common baby sensitivity that you’ll grow out of. I’ve really got to keep an eye on your skin! It’s amazing what things set it off.

You’ve started crying a little when we drop you off at daycare in the mornings. At first it made Daddy and I a little sad, but then you started crying when we came to pick you up, too, so I’m confident it’s just a developmental phase that you’ll grow out of soon. It’s the only time I ever hear you cry! Other than that you are loving daycare. You love to be around people and whenever we’re in new places or places with other kids you are wide-eyed and amazed. You are incredibly social, smiling and grabbing everyone, whether you know them or not. You LOVE to be the center of attention (and judging by Daddy’s and my personalities… we know where you got that from!).

I love you so much, my perfect little person. I marvel at your huge personality that is becoming so evident, and the way your smile charms everyone around you. I wake up every morning so excited to see what new skill you’ll learn today, or what new sound you’ll make. We have SO MUCH FUN together. Every day is a joy.

I love you more than bears love honey. And that’s a lot.


P.S. For your viewing pleasure… an outtake from our photo session:

Guess that’s the end of the photo shoot…


12 responses to “She Says… 8 Months

  1. He is SO adorable!

  2. awhh i love the pictures! soooo cute! happy 8 months, owen 🙂

  3. so cute! that last pic (before the spit-up, that is) is my favorite. amazing he is so laid back too!
    I also apparently barely crawled but was walking at 9 months, sounds like he may be on that path.

  4. Hehe. I’m pretty sure Owen has a gaggle of girls crawling after him, but I’d like him to be Lucy’s beloved!

  5. Great pictures!

    I just wanted to respond to your comment about Owen crying when you picked him up at daycare. Not that this is necessarily what was going on, but I’ve been reading about child development for school and one thing I read was that when children are developing an attachment to mom (or primary caregiver), which starts around this age, they sometimes express their frustration or anxiety the way you described. They hold it in during the time you’re away, and then when you return it either comes flooding back or they see it as an opportunity to express their sense of “betrayal”. So that’s one possible explanation for why he cries when he sees you- I found this comforting, in a way, because then it’s less confusing to see them cry when you expect they’ll be happy!

    Just thought I’d share that theory…

  6. OMG, I’m dying laughing over your last pic… At least he waited until the end, right?

    Owen just gets cuter every single month– those sweet cheeks, beautiful eyes, crazy hair, happy smile… I could just eat him up! Happy 8 months, Owen!!

  7. Baby vomit! I love those skull and cross bone PJs so much!

    Sorry to hear about the wheat thing! We’ve had really good luck so far with table food. I even gave my baby pancake twice before I realized that it’s made with cow’s milk (and she’s supposed to be allergic!). I think she might have grown out of that allergy!

    I wish I had such great pics of my baby, I have such a hard with her not crawling over and trying to take the camera from me!

  8. He is one incredibly adorable little guy, my my my!!! He really did have a tough month. I really hope that doesn’t develop into a wheat allergy 😦

    Beautiful pictures! Adorable baby blues 🙂

  9. Hahaha, aww! He’s so adorable. I have a feeling my son might skip crawling too. Every once in a while when he’s on his stomach he’ll lift his little butt up and get on his knees but he much prefers getting practice standing and walking.

    I hope he doesn’t have a gluten allergy! I read that if you wait a year before introducing wheat, dairy and meat into a baby’s diet they have a smaller chance of being allergic. I’m allergic to diary and the hubby is allergic to nuts so I’m going to try to not give him those things until 12 months to hopefully keep him from having reactions!

  10. I’m so happy he is better! He is a very very handsome little man!! All the best…

  11. OK Kate. Too funny. The outtake made me laugh out loud. It goes without saying that he is the cutest (little boy) monkey in all the world!!! Good post, sister. I love the sum up.

  12. He’s just the most adorable baby, ever! I can’t get over that shock of hair on his head! I just wanna squeeze him and give him kisses (before the last pic, anyways… :).

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