Hi!
Thanks for stopping by. I’m Kate.
I’m a boy mama. A yoga lover. A labradoodle cuddler. A silly song singer. A recipe tweaker. An over-sharer. An ice cream devourer. A grammar enforcer. A bargain shopper. A “teaching myself to sew”er. A 4-day a week corporate trainer. My favorite days end in sweatpants with a glass of red wine in my hand.
This is my husband, Benjamin.
He’s where the story starts. He owns a video production company and doubles as my in-house photographer/videographer (lucky me!).
We met, we fell in love, we made our house a home.
In 2009 we threw the birth control pills out the window and decided to start a family. We naively began this blog thinking that it would be a fun way to chronicle our pregnancy and the adventures we would have raising babies together. Little did we know that our story would take an unexpected emotional detour before we got to that point. Interested in the fertility nitty gritty? Read our baby making story here.
Throughout our struggle with infertility, this blog became a way to work through the disappointment and the ups and downs, and to connect with other young, healthy women going through the same confusing thing. Benjamin wrote the man’s perspective through the crazy journey, which is a side of the story that is often under-represented if not ignored entirely. But, long story short, we eventually made a baby. And once we finally saw that beautiful plus sign, This Place is Now a Home became a place to share our thoughts and feelings about the most incredible transformation of our lives. OUR place. And so we wrote. And I continue to write. Benjamin doesn’t write so much anymore (ok, really at all), but he’s still here.
And that baby we made?
That’s Owen. He’s… well, he’s pretty much the center of our world. And this blog.
And this is Schnitzel.
He actually came before Owen. He’s my pillow, my jogging partner, my company when Benjamin travels, and, perhaps most importantly, Owen’s best friend.
That’s the fam. So far, anyway.
So, what are you waiting for? Come. Join us. Read. Laugh. Cry. Roll your eyes. Nod your head. And when you’re done? Write back. Interact. Share. Comment. Email me. I want to hear what YOU have to say.
Kate
Where do you want to start?
- The very beginning. Read my first post. Ah, innocence.
- Letters to Owen. Starting from 6 weeks pregnant and still going (though less often nowadays, ‘cause writing once a week was a LOT).
- Belly pics. Watch me gain almost 40 pounds in a matter of seconds.
- How being a Mom has changed me. This is still one of my favorite posts I’ve ever written.
- Just the videos. Let’s be honest. Most people only come here to see Owen’s cute little face. I get it.
- Baby stuff we can’t live without. Product reviews and Our Amazon Store.











You really make me smile! Best of luck to you guys. Let me know if you want to talk sometime. i’ve been through it!
Great blog! I love it! I will be reading!
Hi Kate! I just stumbled on your blog and realized we met at the summit!
Hi Kate,
I am so happy to have come across your blog – we are at the same stage in life and dealing with the exact same fertility problems. I wish you all the best on your journey and hope that we are both blessed with happy healthy babies in the NEAR future
Kristin
romancingthestone, Thank you! I may take you up on that
The Healthy Hostess, Thanks! So nice to hear from you.
Whit, Yes! So nice to meet you at the Summit.
Kristin, Amen to that! I appreciate the support. Good luck to you!
Hi Kate – I just came across your blog via the Mommy Blog awards! Congrats! I appreciate you sharing your experience – who knew it would be so complicated? All this time, I thought if I even LOOKED at a guy the wrong way, POOF! I’d be pregnant…
Taryn, I know, my whole life I’ve been SO careful NOT to get pregnant… who would’ve thought that now I can’t even when I’m trying! Ironic, no?
I love that you refer to your husband as “the hubs” because so do I
Sometimes it’s “hubby” too!
I chose you as a recipient of the Beautiful Blogger Award, check out my recent post
Oh my goodness. I have been hanging out on your blog for awhile now, and you are just too cute for words.
I watched your video where you found out you were expected and CRIED AND CRIED.
New life is so beautiful isn’t?!
I’m thrilled for you both. Marriage and babies are God’s greatest blessings.
Hi Kate. Thought you might be interested in this wrap up of a seminar that took place at The Wheeler Centre here in Melbourne Australia. http://wheelercentre.com/dailies/post/8fc21f6e9140/
I log onto your blog probably twice a week if not to read the most recent post, to read the posts that coincide with where I’m up to in my pregnancy (Week 13 and counting!). Because I relate to your character, lifestyle, work ethic and relationship status, I find your posts thought provoking. And generally sensible. Thanks again for sharing.
best wishes
Kate in Melbourne
Kate,
My husband and I struggled with infertility with our first child. We are on month 6 attempting for the 2nd. I am so glad I came upon your site. You smile and positive attitude are an inspiration to me! I am so sorry to hear of your recent….you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica in Michigan
Found this site whilst browsing for ’19 weeks pregnant tummy photos’ as I didn’t know if I was growing ‘normally’! To be honest, I still don’t haha, but I’ve enjoyed reading about you and your family!
Erica
I just found your blog while looking for advice on stopping pumping. You have a site and, in particular, I so appreciate your post on “cabbage boobs” — I have recently made the tough decision to stop pumping for many of the same reasons and it is so nice to know that there are others out there making the same tough decisions!
Congratulations on baby 2 — I look forward to following your progress!
Sara
So happy to have come across your blog. We seem to have a few things in common – infertility challenges, grammar enforcement and red wine
– and I’m looking forward to reading more!
Hi Kate-
I found your blog and want to say thank you for writing about your experiences. I’ve been struggling with infertility and just got my first round of Clomid. Your blogs helps give hope!
Best of luck to you!