She Says… Spontaneous Vacationing

Last week I was joking about what constitutes a vacation these days (a quiet few hours riding the train to New York for work). But it sort of made me realize how we never really go on vacation. Our honeymoon and one trip to Vegas are the only trips I can think of that were not work-related or to visit family over the last few years. Lame.

So you know what we did this past weekend? Decided to take a REAL vacation. Spontaneously.

Don’t be too impressed. It’s not like we jetted off to a tropical island on a whim. But when our friends invited us to join them and some friends at their beach house on Cape Cod last Thursday, we stifled the urge to say “Oh, it’s too short notice… what will we do with the dog… we’ve both been traveling and we really need a weekend at home…”, and just said, “YES!”.

Yes, it was short notice. And yes, we had to figure out who would watch Schnitzel while we were gone. And yes, Benjamin has been traveling so nonstop recently that I really thought all we needed was a weekend, at home, with just the three of us. But you know what? Getting out of the house was far better. We couldn’t weed the garden or go to Target. We couldn’t do laundry. We couldn’t get stuck in our usual weekend routines.

Instead, we packed up the car when I get back from New York. We threw clothes in bags and made a quick list of things like the pack n’ play and booster seat and grabbed a bunch of extra diapers.

It really wasn’t that hard. I’m not sure why we don’t do this every weekend!

Owen was entertained for the entire weekend and acted like a little angel. He took the new sleeping arrangements and nap time car rides and new foods in stride.

He made LOTS of new friends (one other toddler, who was already a friend of his, and 10+ adults staying in one house = lots and lots of people to chat with, climb all over, play with and perform for!).

He explored a new house, playground and the beach.

Benjamin and I were able to completely unplug and relax in a way we could NOT have done at home. There was even one naptime when Benjamin was asleep on the couch, everyone else was out to lunch, and I literally had NOTHING to do. It was… unprecedented. I hadn’t even packed a book, because when was the last time I had a chance to sit and just read? So I plopped my butt in a sunny spot, turned my face toward the sun and closed my eyes. Now THAT is vacation.

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4 responses to “She Says… Spontaneous Vacationing

  1. AWESOME! :) We always over think things and don’t go anywhere on the weekends either (not even to visit family – we live far away from any family or friends, boo hoo, lol) for fear that the toddler will just have a ‘terrible time’ traveling or won’t sleep, etc.. We recently had to go see family (without getting into details there was a health emergency with the inlaws) and despite the fact that things were really not ‘happy’ because of the serious situation, the toddler did really well – and yes, he slept badly the first day, but the rest of the week he was pretty much like normal. He enjoyed seeing family and exploring new places, etc.
    So that was a good idea you two had – sometimes you just have to ‘force’ yourself to do it – it is so worth it :)

  2. sounds perfect! and what a great family picture!

  3. So glad you went. Looks like you had a fabulous time.

  4. soooo fun!!! loved the family picture too; very rare to see all three of you because i’d imagine one of you is always behind the camera!

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